K so this guy used to be my boyfriend.
but he cheated on me and now we broke up. but before we were really good friends and promised no matter what happens we will remain friends
im trying my best to do this.
basically he has a problem of not taking charge of his own actions and decisions. he looks at short term pleasure and doesnt realize the consequences till the deed is done.
he doesnt want to be this person but keeps making the same mistake.
and now hes starting on bad habits such as smoking and drinking.
he used to be totally against drinking....but he claimed that the burn helpped him forget what he did to me n thus affecting himself.... n he has stopped smoking for a long while but now is takin the oppourtunity if he gets it. i want to help him stop these habits b4 they go to far. like he drinks to the point of gettin drunk.
i tell him its bad i tell him it wont help the situation but he just doesnt get it. i got him to stop speeding before this situation seems different. he doesnt care for himself. i beleive if he starts caring for himself better other things will just follow.
how can i help him make better choices and throughly think before he does something?
but he cheated on me and now we broke up. but before we were really good friends and promised no matter what happens we will remain friends
im trying my best to do this.
basically he has a problem of not taking charge of his own actions and decisions. he looks at short term pleasure and doesnt realize the consequences till the deed is done.
he doesnt want to be this person but keeps making the same mistake.
and now hes starting on bad habits such as smoking and drinking.
he used to be totally against drinking....but he claimed that the burn helpped him forget what he did to me n thus affecting himself.... n he has stopped smoking for a long while but now is takin the oppourtunity if he gets it. i want to help him stop these habits b4 they go to far. like he drinks to the point of gettin drunk.
i tell him its bad i tell him it wont help the situation but he just doesnt get it. i got him to stop speeding before this situation seems different. he doesnt care for himself. i beleive if he starts caring for himself better other things will just follow.
how can i help him make better choices and throughly think before he does something?