How do I know if this lunch meeting is just business or pleasure?

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I will be having lunch with the account manager for a supplier of our company. We met a few times in person to discuss invoices & pricing. Just recently he asked if I wanted to get together for lunch to catch up & discuss pricing. I didn't respond to his question about lunch but did see him after that to give him tickets to a sports event my company had offered me. When I gave him the tickets he mentioned him & his friends were getting tickets for a football game in the fall & if I wanted to go he would get me a ticket. Of course I said yes. I am attracted to him. Do you think our lunch meeting will be just business or does he want to get to know me personally?
Superfly, you should try reading the question correctly. He is not my supervisor, he is a supplier for our company. I currenlty go to college & am obtaining my degree. I also have owned my own home since I was 22 years old. No one has paid my way I have earned everything on my own. Thanks to everyone else for your answers.
 
He sounds nice. You like him, and he seems to like you.

As long as you never bring a relationship to the office, and are careful you should be fine!

It is possible, he doesn't like you. but at the same time, it could not be business. When people want to be your friend- since these days everyone takes everything to be more than it is, and everyone thinks to much of things- intentions can be in a gray area.

But he definitely is getting personal, which can be great!
 
For real, you open the door for him to asked you for lunch, but you are the only person to keep this real or business. Men have a agenda every time they come. So asked him is he interested in you? You feel some physical attraction toward him and maybe he does too. Find out about him before you get your emotions involve.

Pleasure and business never mix right. Keep it real. Listen if you don't do anything else with this.
 
This is a tuff one, but it is hard to say until your actually talking at lunch. If he wants to take you to a football game then, wow! That is really quick for a relationship. I think there's a slight chance a relationship might spring up because he made it obvious that he was willing to invite you with him and his friends. That might just be the icing on the cake that will give you that opportunity to get to know him and him and not for business. Once he relates business you know that he is just in it to talk business. Just do not get too hyped up because you do not want to get hurt. Good luck, hope all goes well!
 
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