A guy from my class recently started emailing/texting me and it was clear he liked me. He wasn't feeding me line or anything, he just gave me so much attention. He invited me to a party last weekend and I went, but only stayed for a few minutes. Everyone was older than me, and drunk, so I left. He walked me out and was a complete gentleman. He gave me a few hugs goodbye and held my hand, and it was very sweet. After that though, he stopped texting me as consistently. Now I'm getting texts at 9, 10, 11pm asking me to come over and watch movies. I live 40 minutes away with my family, and he knows that. He says things like I should "move in" with him. I'm confused because he seems very genuine and sweet and far more interested than I was at first...but now he's not as attentive and going to his house so late is a little suspicious to me.
After the party, and for the sheer fact that he is older and lives with other older guys and I don't know him well, I keep trying to bring a friend along when he invites me over. I had a friend at the party with me and I want her to come to this movie at his house. He doesn't reply when I mention her and I can't tell if A) he's annoyed by her being around or B) he's going to use me. He seems like a good guy but his actions are very inconsistent!
After the party, and for the sheer fact that he is older and lives with other older guys and I don't know him well, I keep trying to bring a friend along when he invites me over. I had a friend at the party with me and I want her to come to this movie at his house. He doesn't reply when I mention her and I can't tell if A) he's annoyed by her being around or B) he's going to use me. He seems like a good guy but his actions are very inconsistent!