girlygirl29
New member
i'm black. i know for sure that this man who is 10 years older than me and white likes me. I say I know for sure because he has told me on more than one occassion and I like him. The flirting has been going on for months.
One of the issues is we work together. The other is he has never been with a black woman. My only hesitation is that may be he is not serious and just wants to experiment/play around with me? I have had more than my share of heartache and don't want to be hurt. The more I think of it this may have nothing to do with race...i think it is in the back of my mind, b/c i don't look like any of the girls he has previously been with....how do i know if he is serious or just messing around?
One of the issues is we work together. The other is he has never been with a black woman. My only hesitation is that may be he is not serious and just wants to experiment/play around with me? I have had more than my share of heartache and don't want to be hurt. The more I think of it this may have nothing to do with race...i think it is in the back of my mind, b/c i don't look like any of the girls he has previously been with....how do i know if he is serious or just messing around?