How do I keep my mother in law from getting under my skin?

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My mother in law is the biggest pain in the butt. It's not just me that thinks so. Her mother in law can't stand her.My sister in law (husband's brother's wife) doesn't like her. My mother hate her. She is overbearing, nosy & needs to have say & try to take control of every big/little decision we make. My husband has had a talk with her about it & she said she was going to stop but hasn't. She really gets to me. I have had a talk with her about it & it didn't help any so months later my husband did & still nothing. Im trying not to let it effect my marriage but sometimes it does. What do I do? I hate being fake but when I see her I have to just grin & bear it but its getting harder. I feel like Im one day she's going to say the wrong thing ( she usually does) & Im going to flip on her. Im not talking about a civilized discussion Im talkin cursing her &%$ out & rip her a new one. I don't want to get to that point but both me & my husband have put it to her very nicely that she needs to back off a little & she hasn't. How do I deal with her?
LOL. I seen Monster in Law. My best friend who was my maid of honor told me to rent it after having to deal with my mother in law while helping with my wedding planning.
 
Ok you all spoke to her about being a pain in the $#%^.
Next time she gets under your skin, calmly stop what you're doing and say " Xxxxxx, we had a discussion about (whatever) xxxxxxxx,
I prefer you don't bring that up again." Everytime she does xyz, reminder her again and again until she gets the hint.
Just be careful, if your in her house, she might ask you to leave. Bet that would make you smile.
 
lol watch monster in law with jennifer lopez good moviee.. might learn somin idk.
 
i just let her words go in one ear and out the other. people like that love attention and i dont give it to them. their words are so meaningless that i dont even get mad because i dont care. when she talks, i make polite and short comments back, inviting NO further converstations. i'm cold, yet polite. i dont return her phone calls and dont feel guilty about it either. she doesnt talk to me much and i dont care either.
 
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