How do I get my wife to stop complaining about me kicking out our pregnant

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Heath Ledger

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17 year old daughter? My wife keeps bothering me to let my daughter back in, but I refuse. I told her not to sleep around and since she didn't listen she must live with the consequences.
 
wow ok first of all that's your little girl. Did it ever occur to you what kind of bad things can happen to a girl that age out on the streets? yes she was wrong for not listing to you but what kind of relationship do you really think your going to have with her when she gets older, she'll only hate you more. Swallow your pride let her back in and work threw the problem together after all she is you daughter.
 
I admire your ability to stick to your word and follow through with punishments. Caving in doesn't help anyone.

However...
This situation does not just involve your daughter. It involves your grand child. That child is completely innocent, yet he/she is being punished.

I suggest you let your daughter in until she delivers then kick her out or help HER FIND a place for unwed mothers to live. Check out the links below.

She needs to take responsibility for her actions. Parenting classes are a start. Most hospitals offer them. Planned Parenthood has a great cousiling program to teach her about taking responsibility. Take her there. Guide her just a little further. Then when this is done you can let her go if you still want to.

From personal experience...getting pregnant (unexpectedly) changed my life and I would not change it for anything. I suddenly had a reason to be responsible. I love my kids, hubby, and my life. Give her a chance to adjust and I bet you will see her grow into a woman before her due date.

Best of luck.
 
Personally, i think your wife should have kicked YOU out, rather than you kicking your daughter out...I hope she never forgives you. What a horrible father you are. That's your daughter...And your GRANDCHILD. You disgust me.
 
I hope this is real and I wish more parents of kids would make their kids face the consequences instead of making it easy on them!

How do they learn if they refuse to listen to your warnings, then do as they please, then you bail them out when they screw up?

They don't!

She made HER choice, let her live with it.
 
WOW...I think you are a horrible father....but that is my opinion. Who am I to judge...i Just think you should love your children unconditionally. You can preach to her her whole life...but in the end you must let her make her own decisions and make her own mistakes. You are her father and you are supposed to support her no matter what she goes through. Your daughter is probably scared to death and needs her mom and dad more than anyone else in this world right now...how can you be so heartless....
Here is something that helped me realize the mistakes I was making with my kids....

Find the wisdom to know the difference between WHAT YOU FEEL and WHAT IS REAL!!!!!

Once you figure out what this means I think you will change your mind about the situation. You are only mad at your daughter for her actions right now. But the reality is...she is still your baby girl and she will soon bless your family with a beautiful baby...embrace Gods gift and forgive your baby girl....
 
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