How do I get my husband to talk about sex?

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mishelly

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We have been married a year, and we do have a good sex life and maybe I need to be more vocal and ballzy and bring it up but I just don't know how to approach it. We haven't talked about fantasy's or really what each of us really like. I know communication is the key to a great relationship and I want that, but I guess he don't make me feel comfortable enough to bring it up to him. See I'm the horny one I always want sex always and he could go for two weeks without it. I want to explore with him and try new different and exciting things to keep our sex life SPICY! LOL If anyone has a good suggestion then please give me ideas on how to approach him and talk about sex how do I begin what questions do I ask and what questions not to ask...HELP?
 
You can start by telling a story about what you read in books about sex or about a sexy movie or about what your friend thinks about sex, then after that you can start by asking him what does he thinks and what do you think about sex.
 
Get a classy book on sexual positions and when it is time to go to bed, get in bed first and be looking at it when he comes to bed. It will give him and you both ideas. It worked for me.
 
Draw sexy cartoons in new positions that you want to try (don't have to be perfect). Put a caption 'what do you think about this for tonight?'
Leave them in his car. We women are like fine wine..we get better with age when it comes to our sexual appetite. I am mostly the initiator these days as well.

I don't share all of my fantasies with my honey; I am sure he doesn't share all of his either.

To get him to talk a bit about it, draw several and ask him which one(s) he prefer. Then gently prod and ask him why. He may be shy to discuss it, so it's best to do this in bed when he's not looking at you directly.
 
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