How do I get my head around my partner chatting on live cams and sending and...

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Kerry B

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...receiving xrated pictures? I believe i'm not being unreasonable, i dont have any problems with my partner watching porn sites, in fact i enjoy them too, i do however wish he wouldnt just watch them when i leave the house, i would prefer we watched them together however just recently the ordinary porn watching has now moved on to him chatting on webcams with girls and sending porn pictures via his email to and from them, he doesnt think i know and quickly tries to delete all the history should i come home etc., i know this is not acutal infidelity in a physical sense, but im feeling really rejected, he constantly turns me down for sex as he says i have a too higher sex drive yet he refuses me to constantly chat and watch porn - i love this man, i know he has no love for me and i accept that, i realise i have to either learn to accept his behaviour and adjust my way of thinking, but im constantly miserable, feeling neglected and in particular rejected - im 50 yrs old altho people say i look 10 yrs younger im feeling as vulnerable as i did when i was a teenager, my partner makes me feel inferior - are there any women out there who could tell me how to get my head around this and not allow it to grind me down please -
 
i class that behaviour as a form of cheating hun
he also feels guilty and he is trying to cover his tracks be deleting the history
he will keep doing it. i mean how can you stop him if you arent there?
sounds like neither of you are happy and it might be worth ending this
 
Leave him or kick him out ! His behaviour has already escalated once, how long before he goes to the next level ? You deserve so much better than him. You are not too old to start a new life with a new man, one who really loves you. Friends of mine got married 18 months ago, she is now 54, he is 82 and they love each other to bits ! See it`s not too late !
 
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