I feel silly for asking this on here, but its something thats been bothering me and putting a damper on my girlfriend and I's relationship. Were both 20 have been dating for nearly 2 years, i would say the ratio of me going down on her is about for every 20 times i go down on her, she goes down on me 1 time.. usually when its that time of the month. I need others opinions, i think its selfish in a way, i don't always enjoy going down on her but she loves it. Shouldn't she do the same? We've talked about it and her best response has been she simply doesn't like giving them. and she freaked when i told her i would stop going down on her because its relatively the same thing, but she disagrees. Any advice as to how i can turn this around into making the favor come back to me as often as i do the favor for her? Im frustrated over the situation and she knows it. Serious advice and opinions are welcome, thanks in advance.
we dont 69.. tried it, but to her its distracting, shes loving what im doing to her and finds it hard to blow me at the same time, or vise versa
another important thing, whenever i get one, i ask for it. never have i gotten one by her naturaly(?) So its frustrating knowing i have to ask anytime i want one, and even then i dont get it all the time. any advice on how to get her to do the favor without me asking??
we dont 69.. tried it, but to her its distracting, shes loving what im doing to her and finds it hard to blow me at the same time, or vise versa
another important thing, whenever i get one, i ask for it. never have i gotten one by her naturaly(?) So its frustrating knowing i have to ask anytime i want one, and even then i dont get it all the time. any advice on how to get her to do the favor without me asking??