How do i get husband to stop bugging for sex?

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Abusive Marriage 11 Years. I don't want to have sex anymore with him. We fight about the subject. I tell him to go get it from someone else to leave me alone. I've fallen out of love, I've told him over and over. So I filed for divorce. We still live together, How can I stop him from bugging me about the subject, without giving it to him. I can't leave him, he has me trapped in many ways. So anyone out there with good advice?
We been through the cops, court system, He didn't get much time 1year he was out in 2weeks. I'm being watched even when he's not here, I'm dealing with a crazy person. one that will come back to kill. I've had my phone tap, house tap, car tap, camera's around the house. I'm sure he has something on this computer. Knowing all this It doesn't stop me from saying no to sex.
 
move in with a family member until you can support yourself.. get out...

he wants sex? just tell him you've had better and dont want to be bored shitless.

adios!
 
well huny u ahve to leave him if he has traped u...then there are ways out of every thing...and tell him to go to a hooker or sumthing...and if he bugs u call the cops huny....high time!
 
If he is abusive then you need to go somewhere and get out of there. Call the police and let them help you leave. You dont need to be in this situation.
 
i suppose that you can't be so trapped if he didn't stop you from writing this. i feel sorry for you but the thought in my head is that the time it took you to write this is enough to live the house and drive off. no need to pack. if he is so abusive just drop it all and run baby run!
 
Troll.

I could believe the first part but your going way to far with the additional parts. Where you feel you are being wire tapped and stuff. I
thought this was about sex? Please, you can't leave him? You can leave anybody if you want to. Cameras around the house?


If you filed for divorce WTF are you still doing living with the dork?
 
first option and best one call...National Domestic Violence Hot line at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

second option( not the best option) tell him you were exposed to h.i.v

third option(WARNING..not a good option), tell him no..its rape if he doesn't listen and if he does it anyway fight back like hell that way you can use your battle wounds as evidence to get his a*s locked away..then you won't be trapped because either he will kill you when you resist or you will hopefully have him arrested....
 
Dont worry about stopping it. You cant control what another person does. What you can control is how you react to it. Simply ignore it peacefully. Give up the fight and just know what you want and stand your ground. You dont have to explain anything to him. You guys arent working things out, your getting divorced, so it doesnt matter how he feels.
 
you show get away from him go stay with a friend ....take of when he is not home calling the police thay dont do shit...some 1like that i would not stay with....threr is better men out threr.. good luck
 
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