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my other half seems to have issues and denial
i've been with him 17 years and no matter the situation he seems to want to lash out and become aggressive to everyone around him.
he drinks rarely but when he does it's like the devil has entered him and he wants to fight everyone
when he is sober he reflects back to his violent child hood saying they were the best years of his life.
he has never bonded with our children so it's like i'm a single mother
i tried to get help for him in the past from social services but they were more interested in trying to take my children away rather than helping me get the help he needs so i had to clammed up for the welfare of my children who are not in anyway abused in any category of the word .
i ended up putting a complaint is about the social worker because she claimed i was in denial of my actions
but i was asking for help for him
i've been to one covering up everything he has done from everyone
because he manages to look to the out side world like a normal person no one will listen
he recently found his son from his first marriage and all his son wants is to know his father
but he wants to fight his son constantly saying to me that his son is trying to take over his life and take me and our kids away from him
all because of some of the stories his son has told him about as a child growing up
not the person his son is today
but it's like he is stuck in the past and his aggression is now driving everyone away from him
if i can't get help for him with out losing my children because i've asked for help i'll have to sacrifice everything for the sake of them
i've been with him 17 years and no matter the situation he seems to want to lash out and become aggressive to everyone around him.
he drinks rarely but when he does it's like the devil has entered him and he wants to fight everyone
when he is sober he reflects back to his violent child hood saying they were the best years of his life.
he has never bonded with our children so it's like i'm a single mother
i tried to get help for him in the past from social services but they were more interested in trying to take my children away rather than helping me get the help he needs so i had to clammed up for the welfare of my children who are not in anyway abused in any category of the word .
i ended up putting a complaint is about the social worker because she claimed i was in denial of my actions
but i was asking for help for him
i've been to one covering up everything he has done from everyone
because he manages to look to the out side world like a normal person no one will listen
he recently found his son from his first marriage and all his son wants is to know his father
but he wants to fight his son constantly saying to me that his son is trying to take over his life and take me and our kids away from him
all because of some of the stories his son has told him about as a child growing up
not the person his son is today
but it's like he is stuck in the past and his aggression is now driving everyone away from him
if i can't get help for him with out losing my children because i've asked for help i'll have to sacrifice everything for the sake of them