how do i gain back my parents' trust and avoid them putting my bf in jail or...

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...getting a restraining order? i am only 15 years old. i had sex with my boyfriend when i was 14 years old and was 17. we are 2 years and 3 months apart. my mom found out about this and kept it a secret from my dad for 7 months. i've been caught lying this year several times, and my mom finally exploded and told my dad that i'm not a virgin anymore. he told me that he was going to file statutory rape against him and if that doesn't work, he is going to put a restraining order. i really need to prevent this from happening because i stopped talking to him for a while, and he doesn't know that this is going to happen. we are going to try to make our relationship work again in the future but now that seems impossible when all this is happening. i just need to gain back my parent's trust because they took away my phone and my makeup and my hairdryer and are threatening to put me in a convent. and i don't want this guy to go to jail..or have a restraining order PLEASE HELP!
 
statutory rape doesn't work against him because he wasn't 18 and you weren't under 16 at the same time. He can file a restraining order against him for him to stay away from your father, but not you because you need to give your consent. He also has to have a decent legal reason to have a restraining order Just talk to them. The best thing is to write down all the lies you've told them, then writ down the truth to them. Show them that you want their trust back! In the future, tell them the WHOLE story when there is one. It takes forever to get trust back, but it can happen
 
Your dad is just mad at you because of all your lying. And especially about something like that, he's probably just in shock. Did your dad like your boyfriend before all of this? Just give them time. Be helpful around the house. Try to keep a smile on your face and become closer with your parents. Let them know that you don't want them not to trust you. It might just work.
 
unless he's 18 it can't count as statutory rape in most states. however, he can put a restraining order against him. my advice would be to just break up with him. i thin that would be an easy solution to all of these problems; your parents wouldn't have to put a restraining order against him, and you can focus on yourself and getting your life together so you can start telling the truth to your parents. unfortunately, that's sort of the only way to get it back, by just being honest and truthful with them. it will build up, and it will get better.
 
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