How do I cope with my fiance in jail?

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Sam

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My fiance has been in jail since april 23rd of this year. he might be going back to prison for 18 months to 3 years from violating his parole. i am just dying without him. in the letters he writes me he tells me that i am strong. its hard for me to cope with him being gone. i told him in my letters that im gonna stick by him through all of this. its hard to look at him through the glass. i dont think i could handle him going to prison. How do i cope with it?
ok you ppl dont know what ur talking about. u judge before u get to know him. thats what my parents did. now they love him. i aint gonna fuckin cheat on him. the only thing he did wrong to get sent to jail is leave wisconsin and went to chicago for an hour. i know its gonna be rough but ive excepted it. if u dont have anything nice to say to me then dont fuckin say it.
 
You pray and ask God fro strength, ask God to put your family back together, and to never let it be torn apart again. Ask God to keep your fiance safe while he is there. Ask God to give you all the strength you need and more. Praise God for all that he has done,, and thank God in Jesus name for all the blessings still to come. Ask God to send him home early, ask in Jesus name and believe! God bless you both!
 
Forget about him and date someone who is not scum, and you will never have to worry about a jailbird again. If he truly cared for you, he would never have acted in a way that would leave you alone and hurt like this.
 
well cheat on him.... umm dont go often so you dont think about him that much...well since you are going to start cheating I could be the first to give you my number.
 
Was he guilty? If yes, then you are probably wrong for sticking with him, because this sort of thing will likely characterize you life with him.

If no, then work for his release. Find the real culprit and get justice done.

But despite all that the liklihood is that he's guilty and won't straighten out. As much as you love him, it's wrong to put yourself into a situation where your life can be upended in this way, and doubly wrong if there ever are children involved.

It's not hard to find a man who will never have this problem. You just have to look a little longer and harder, that's all.
 
You may be in love now but jail changes people and you will forever have problems with this fella. Think about where you want to be and if he is a realistic partner
 
He has prov-en to be trouble. U will continue to be disappointed in the future the man is not going to change. You should really think about moving on. This girls liking bad guys is nonsenses and you don't have to believe it.
 
Look at what you wrote......baby he could be gone for up to 3 years! If he can't be trusted to live by the laws what makes you think he's a good catch? He was given parole.....and honor system........and he broke it. And he probably will continue breaking it once he gets out. Not only will he break laws, but he'll also break any promises he makes to you.

You've got to find your feet, get up and get out of the environment that is pulling you down. Get some training, move on.....and away......and start a new life with a new, stronger you. Don't stay where you are, it is suffocating you.
 
Odds are you better get ready to live like that for a real long time. You said parole,Its only obvious that hes been in trouble with the law before. Do the guy a favor and leave,Hes already gone you just don't see it yet.
 
Get a new man. Sorry it might hurt, but you need to here it. What kind of life are you going to have being married to an ex-con. Not a good one I can tell ya that!
 
Wow you picked a winner. I felt like a bad husband when I got deployed because I would be gone so long and my wife would have to wait on me but that is the life I chose, does it make it better or worse that I chose a life that would take me away and he got taken against his will.

O wait im better because I was serving my country and he is a criminal, so what did he do? They don't just hand out felonies for no reason.
 
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