how do i convince my mom to move close an environment im comfortable in?

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KILLCANDICEDEAD :

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i have a lot of family issues.
i live with my dads parents.my parents have joint custody of my brother and i.my dads family doesnt accept me and treats me like crap.i just recently found someone that takes all the pain away, yet there is a problem.
we live an hour from each other
he cant drive but i can in 4 months.
my mom is about to get full custody of me.
and she wants to sell her house because the environment it's in isnt safe for me
but the area my boyfriend lives in is safe for me
and they have a really good education system there
all mny friends live there
everything that makes me happy is there.
my mom said she knows no one there
and thats the downfall of it all.
because she will need help paying for bills
but i told her i would get a job to help pay for the bills and she isnt accepting of it.
thtas the only reason she doesnt want to move there.
how do i convince her that this is perfect for us??
 
you answered your own question hun... all of the points you present are the resons why you should go... if your mom loves you she will understand... she is a grown woman and can fend for herself (as far as not knowing anyone) and if this is what you want and you have to move anyways... your mom isnt going to know anyone anywhere else right? well there you go... and if she doesnt want to move there exactly maybe try convincing her of a place that is only 15 minutes away or something, thats better then nothing right?
 
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