MIND THE GAP
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At the place I work, there are job opening that pay about 2 times the salary I get but you have to have some expensive training to get these jobs. My friend at work paid $5000 for the training and got one of the jobs and she is urging me to do the same. She says she has a wonderful boss and the extra money is great. I would like to get the training and the new job but I have a problem. I don’t have $5000 to pay for the training but my ex husband has offered to give me the training for free.
My problem is my current husband does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband. He is very insecure about me and other men especially my ex husband. Are all husbands that insecure? As I see it these are my choices.
A. Have my ex husband give me the training and not tell my current husband who I got the training from. My ex husband will not tell anyone he is giving me the training.
B. Have my ex husband give me the training and tell my current husband that my ex husband is doing the training and let him be mad for a while. I could even invite my current husband to be with me when I get the training but I know he would not come.
C. Borrow the $5000 dollars (it is highly unlikely anyone would loan me $5000) and have someone else give me the training and try to pay it back some each year and hope I keep my job long enough to pay off my debt. It is going to be very hard to find a woman to give the training so it still will probably be a man doing the training which may cause problems.
D. Keep this crappy job I now have.
For the record my ex husband has NO interest in getting back to me and I have NO interest in getting back with him. He is a nice guy and doing this training for me as a friend. Yes, I know is not usual to be friends with your ex but we are just friends.
Gals (and guys too), please give me some advice on what to do.
My problem is my current husband does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband. He is very insecure about me and other men especially my ex husband. Are all husbands that insecure? As I see it these are my choices.
A. Have my ex husband give me the training and not tell my current husband who I got the training from. My ex husband will not tell anyone he is giving me the training.
B. Have my ex husband give me the training and tell my current husband that my ex husband is doing the training and let him be mad for a while. I could even invite my current husband to be with me when I get the training but I know he would not come.
C. Borrow the $5000 dollars (it is highly unlikely anyone would loan me $5000) and have someone else give me the training and try to pay it back some each year and hope I keep my job long enough to pay off my debt. It is going to be very hard to find a woman to give the training so it still will probably be a man doing the training which may cause problems.
D. Keep this crappy job I now have.
For the record my ex husband has NO interest in getting back to me and I have NO interest in getting back with him. He is a nice guy and doing this training for me as a friend. Yes, I know is not usual to be friends with your ex but we are just friends.
Gals (and guys too), please give me some advice on what to do.