how do i break my habit of masturbating?

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Brett S

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i know sounds stupid lol but i am just sick of doing this as much as i do. i want to stop or atleast only do it once in a while. any tips on gaining self control? what do i do if i have the urge to?

please just try to help instead of saying "ew" or "why do you have to stop?"
talking to girls will only make me want to jerk off more lol. the reason behind this , i didnt want to explain but i guess i will anyway- i dont want to have sex until i am either engaged or married, this is just how my beliefs are... i am committed to it. i kno i can resist temptation, i have already done it for 20 years. still, there are so many beautiful women around me sometimes it gets hard to not think about sex
 
I'm a virgin also & i'm waiting till marriage as well & it is really difficult to keep it under control so i do get what you are going through. As to stop it or take a break from it it's all about self control there is no trick to it, you'll just have to deal with it your own way.
 
I'll try to help, but I really do have to ask "why do you have to stop?" anyway. Masturbation is a perfectly normal thing to do. You don't state whether you're sexually active, but if you're not, then cutting back masturbation will probably cause an increase in nocturnal emissions (wet dreams). Ejaculate is easier to clean up if you're awake when it happens.

Anyway, to help cut back, use the same sort of techniques you'd use to cut down on any habit.

One method: choose a particular time of day - maybe first thing in the morning, or last thing at night, or any other convenient time - and from now on, that will be your masturbation time. While you don't *have* to masturbate then, you're forbidden from doing so at any other time of day. So whenever you get the urge, put it off - just think "I'll save it up for tomorrow morning".

Once you've got things under control, then cut back the allotted times. So instead of every morning, the assigned time becomes only the even days of the month, or only mornings with a "T" in the day (Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday) or whatever.
 
CHOP CHOP CHOP. lol jk, if you can make it five days without you won't feel like masturbating. I went 16 days without at one time
 
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