PlayerHater8806
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whines, it makes him look bad? and I don't mean in an emotional, crying way, like literally tears are coming out, I mean in a pissed off, angry fashion, like if a guy is just frustrated and pissed off, complains and whines about his lack of success in life, and I mean in any part of life, the social world, the working world, anything, etc. If a guy is emo or something, etc. I seriously hate double-standards, if a girl, female was feeling the same way, in the same mood, people would not be replying to her or saying to her all the time or just not as much by saying "quit your bitching, whining, complaining, why don't you get off the computer or get out or your house and go get a life and try to do something about it?" etc., phrases like that. I obviously know that people are completely turned off by pessimistic, negative people, but it always seems that if a guy, male has a pessimistic, negative, frustrated attitude, etc. Society will frown upon him a lot more than they will frown upon a woman for having that attitude and frustration, emo. Why?
Thats what I really hate, because I will admit, like most of us, we have had our share of bad days, frustrating experiences, and yet I hate it when people always say to stop or quit whining like it is annoying them, that pisses me off because they are worrying about my problem, they should mind their own business, just ignore me thats all. Seriously, how come it hurts guys more than girls if a guy is frustrated, in a bad mood like I described above?
Thats what I really hate, because I will admit, like most of us, we have had our share of bad days, frustrating experiences, and yet I hate it when people always say to stop or quit whining like it is annoying them, that pisses me off because they are worrying about my problem, they should mind their own business, just ignore me thats all. Seriously, how come it hurts guys more than girls if a guy is frustrated, in a bad mood like I described above?