Alannah Chandler
New member
I'll try to make a long story short, my man and I have been together almost five years, hes 30,Im 27, anyway, it started a year ago everything started going bad, he was out drinking and going to bars and coming home late, he came home every night but I grew more and more insecure over time, so I started going out and coming home late because nothin I eould say or do would stop him from drinking and coming home late no matter how good a girlfriend I was. Anyway we had a huge fight and I moved out about 5 months ago. The past 2 months we got back together, well after we brojke up I was dating another guy because i thought my man was seeing other women, he had all kinds of phone numbers. Well he is angry I was with another guy who was a friend I knew for a while, he swears he was not with another women even though Ive found evidence that says he was. He know seems like he dosnt trust me and when I try to calmy discuss things he gets very defensive and doesnt even want to talk. I just quit my job because he doesnt like the guys at my work, I have given up jobs and friends to prove to him Im loyal but when I ask him to stop going to the bar or drinking or give up his female friends he doesnt do it, I love him but Im at my wits end, what can I say to him or how can I talk to him!???