How can i mingle with strangers?

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Sorry for ur bad experience. I had to tak a practice sat a few mnths ago with a bunch of kids idk. I didn't talk to any1 there because I'm shy and just didn't feel like forcing myself (I was tired and grumpy that day).

If you don't want to talk or if its stressful, just don't. It works for me. If you want to mingle and make friends just do it. Don't worry about messing up. If someone thinks ur friendliness is fake (though I'm sure it isn't), screw them. Don't over think it, just be urself. no 1 is going to bite ur head off.


I've got to take the real sat in 1 month at some high school across town.LOL! Don't have a liscense yet,so at least I don't have to worry abt parking. =D
 
I have had the crappiest day ever. I am 17 years old, and today I had to take a huge test at a high school I don't go to. I literally did not know ANYONE so I just stood there like a loser while the people from that school broke off into their little groups and chatted away happily while we waited to be seated. It was like middle school all over again (I was the new kid).

The only words I could muster were "Is this where we report to for the testing? I don't go here so I wouldnt know." The guy I asked was like yep...and that was it. So i just sat there awkwardly for a good 10 minutes. Then during the breaks from the test, the same awkward standing.

I talked to this one girl, but I just did not feel like myself. I became extremely awkward and insecure, and I've realized I have this fake friendliness which i HATE.

Why am I like this? How can I get over my shyness and be more approachable? I have to go there again tomorrow and I don't want to do the same thing.


-------STOP READING. THE REST IS A RANT ABOUT MY CRAPPY DAY------
PS-I also hate the police. Our school officer gave me a ticket because after the test, I went back to my own school to get a text book. I parked for like 2 minutes. When I came back, he wrote me a ticket, even though there were no signs saying i couldn't park there. Then he became all power-hungry and threatened to increase the fine and tow my car. He also lied and said in his hill billy accent "I dont been here 1 hour!" He lied. I parked there for two freaking minutes. Jerk.

Sorry this is a rant. I hate heartless people! I also hate fake friendly people! the real world is not a friendly place...
 
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