There was this girl i met when i was a sophomore in high school and we really clicked. She took me out to concerts and record stores all the time. She was a senior at the time and we were really close. Now i'm a senior and she's graduated so we lost touch even though we still live in the same city. We tried to keep in touch but it didn't last very long(it's hard to keep in touch if you don't see them everyday) and it's pretty depressing to think about. She was angry at me for not contacting her or asking her to hang out because she was the one always doing that, but i honestly don't know how to approach her with that because i'm a really boring person. I don't have too many friends and no car plus im an only child so what could i possibly do to invite her and make myself seem all busy and interesting. The thing we really had in common was our taste in music and we both loved record stores. Anyways, we haven't talked for about a good 8 months now and i think she's forgotten me. (she goes to college and im in my last year of high school)
I recently saw her at a coffee shop and it was really shocking. We were kinda forced to talk because we just bumped right into each other. I got this really sick feeling in my stomach and i wanted to cringe. I couldn't even open my mouth because i had nothing to say. I remembered everything we did and seeing her face was really painful. I wanted to relive our friendship, but it's over with now. We had small talk and it got way too awkward so i just told "alright, got to go, see you later" which obviously wasn't true.
Anyways, my question is: how can i reconnect with her or mend my friendship after all this time of not talking. I know she's a really stubborn person and when people neglect her she pushes them out of her life. She's really deep and that scares me. I know that she's pushed me out of her life, but i want back in. I don't have many friends and i know she doesnt either but i know she liked me a lot and she was hurt that i didn't keep in touch( i didnt know how). Do you think it's possible to regain her friendship and if so, how?
I recently saw her at a coffee shop and it was really shocking. We were kinda forced to talk because we just bumped right into each other. I got this really sick feeling in my stomach and i wanted to cringe. I couldn't even open my mouth because i had nothing to say. I remembered everything we did and seeing her face was really painful. I wanted to relive our friendship, but it's over with now. We had small talk and it got way too awkward so i just told "alright, got to go, see you later" which obviously wasn't true.
Anyways, my question is: how can i reconnect with her or mend my friendship after all this time of not talking. I know she's a really stubborn person and when people neglect her she pushes them out of her life. She's really deep and that scares me. I know that she's pushed me out of her life, but i want back in. I don't have many friends and i know she doesnt either but i know she liked me a lot and she was hurt that i didn't keep in touch( i didnt know how). Do you think it's possible to regain her friendship and if so, how?