how can i get sex? i need to know who i am!?

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bodom_rule1990

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hey, so i think im bi curios.
but thing is im not attracted to girls walking down the street etc.
just get turned on thinking of having sex with a girl.
so thinking of trying it.
might sound mean or whatever but i dont know who to do it with or how to find some1

(im not trying to offend any1, jus need to sort myself out)..

My mate is bi but im not attracted to her, i could have a 3sum with my mate and his gf or go to a gay bar? etc.
thing is do you think if some1 in the bar found out i was looking for sex and not a relationship would they be mad? or ok with it.

as id feel mean just going to the bar to well it would be like use some1,and its not like i can ask for sex lol.
cheers x
 
just go to a gay bar and get talking to a girl and explain that you are just curious and you dont know if you are bi or not, she will probably want to sleep with you regardless, good luck
 
dont be so sure that you "can't ask for sex"

just make it casual, "hi, I'm looking for someone to take home tonight, interested?"

it's up front, there's no deceiving, it tells them you are not looking to get serious, and you won't call them the next day. if they're interested, you just got lucky, if not, politely excuse yourself and say, "it's too bad, we could have had a good time"
 
You could get turned on by thinking of monkeys having sex. That dosent mean your attracted to monkeys, its just a fetish.

If your physically, emotionally and spiritually attracted to females, your a lesbian.
 
It upsets me a bit that you need sex to find out 'who you are'. You are more than just your sexual organs or preferences.
However, to answer your question there are lots of online sex contacts sites. Try registering on one and see what kind of offers you get.
 
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