Hi, so I'm the kind of person who's almost always ready to go and wants sex all the time. But the thing is, my husband seems to rarely want it, and usually never initiates unless he's outrageously horny.
He will not take pills, so any sexual arousal stuff is out of the question.
Lingere is also out of the question. He's not into that kind of stuff, and he doesn't have any fantasies or fetishes. He sees me naked all the time so just seeing me naked doesn't really get him turned on anymore.
Our sleep schedules are not on the same schedule so I'm usually saying during the day "I want to have sex tonight" and he'll say "maybe" and then I end up falling asleep, horny and unsatisfied.
When we do have sex, it seems like he's the only one achieving an orgasm, and after he does he can't/doesn't want to keep going so I have to deal with not getting what I really wanted and fall asleep or do whatever else I was doing during the day.
He doesn't like using my toys on me and even asking it gets me the "why are you so demanding?" look.
Its not that I'm bad at sex or that I'm not tight enough, he gets off just fine and then just leaves me there =[
Any help or suggestions?
I always give him head before we have sex and I'm usually the one on top doing the work, and calling him a lazy ass and a bum or whatever insults that you may type doesnt answer my question and will be reported as abuse. >_>
