way2tall89
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I have been dating my girlfriend for the last 6 months. I have tried my best to keep her satisfied by taking her out as much as I can. I am always trying to find places to go visit and do things with her. I always open every door for her. I give her massages when asked and freely give them when she doesn't ask with no complaints if I don't receive one in return. I have bought her flowers on several occasions. I continue to listen to her complain about her job and her home situation practically everyday and telling her things will turn up. I tell her she's beautiful every time I see her. We have a great sex life; she's told me I'm her best. She's told me I treat her like a princess, that she has never been treated so well in previous relationships.
But whenever she has something to say about me it's usually some rude remark like "don't quit your day job" after I sing 3 words of a song in the car. (By the way I took choir for 3 years and I have sang many solos so I know I'm a good singer) lol anyways She just never has anything good to say. I feel she takes me for granted. I feel under appreciated even though I'm there for her whenever to hear her vent but she continues to find ways to get mad with me over the silliest of things. She can be very rude to me not only in private but also in public. They are little things but nonetheless rude. She never seems happy. I can never cheer her up. One negative thing can happen to her on a really great day and that day is considered a bad day.
What I want to know is how I can make this work. She really is a great person. I can see what she wants to be, and I know I'm not perfect but at least I'm trying to make her happy. I want her to want to make me happy. Not just looking out for herself like she has in the past. She can have a very nice personality and I want to see more of that. How can I make this possible?
But whenever she has something to say about me it's usually some rude remark like "don't quit your day job" after I sing 3 words of a song in the car. (By the way I took choir for 3 years and I have sang many solos so I know I'm a good singer) lol anyways She just never has anything good to say. I feel she takes me for granted. I feel under appreciated even though I'm there for her whenever to hear her vent but she continues to find ways to get mad with me over the silliest of things. She can be very rude to me not only in private but also in public. They are little things but nonetheless rude. She never seems happy. I can never cheer her up. One negative thing can happen to her on a really great day and that day is considered a bad day.
What I want to know is how I can make this work. She really is a great person. I can see what she wants to be, and I know I'm not perfect but at least I'm trying to make her happy. I want her to want to make me happy. Not just looking out for herself like she has in the past. She can have a very nice personality and I want to see more of that. How can I make this possible?