how can i do this? is it creepy?

gina s

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I still have feelings for an ex. A month ago he confessed he has very strong feelings for me however he is engaged. He said he might one day have kids and wish they were mine. We decided not to talk anymore because it's not fair to his fiancee. I never told him how I felt and now I have the courage to tell him that I love him. I know that he is engaged but I feel like he should know my feelings before he takes the plunge and gets married. It will be up to him to decide what to do. Here is the problem: I don't have his number and his fiancee has his e-mail and facebook passwords. I don't have any mutual friends I trust enough to pass on the message.
Would calling his father and asking him to pass the message be stalkerish? How can I tell him how I feel without his fiancee finding out? I don't want to stir up problems between them. I just simply want him to know how I feel and then allow him to make his own decision.
 
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