WilDnSweeT
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He talks back?
He dilliberatly hurts the kitten for no reason except to be mean?
He trashes the bathroom, despite my warnings!?
He doesn't listen to one thing I say?!!
When he wont stop repeating things like pee-pee, boobies and poo-poo (lol yeah its kindof funny but I never laugh over it) So far I've tried to not give him the reaction he wants ( a shocked disgusting reaction) but he needs to stop doing that it's so embarrassing! and he cant say that stuff at school! Also lately he's been telling me "mommy those people are fat" >?
Let me just inform you all that me and the father have joint custody and are on a totally weird schedule, He goes to his dad's one week ( for a week each time) then my house a week ( so we each have him the same amount of time- 2wks each month
I try to talk to him about our 3year old's misbehaving etc. and all his dad says is that he uses time-out, So I have been doing that also and Honestly I am not having much luck with that, and spanking him is so pointless- He will laugh if anything and still continue to do exactly what I am asking him not to do! I try re-phrasing, I try everything.
It's really starting to just completly drain me which is making my time with him far less enjoyable..so then when he goes back to his dad's I feel like I didn't have as good of a time with him as I could have, It makes me feel like i am a bad parent but then as soon as I have him again- I remember why I get so frustrated. I know he's 3 and going through his little rebelious phase but he is doing things on purpose to upset me in any way he can!! Also* I am very good with encouraging his good behavior so there's no reason he should want to be bad over being good. Plz help me
He dilliberatly hurts the kitten for no reason except to be mean?
He trashes the bathroom, despite my warnings!?
He doesn't listen to one thing I say?!!
When he wont stop repeating things like pee-pee, boobies and poo-poo (lol yeah its kindof funny but I never laugh over it) So far I've tried to not give him the reaction he wants ( a shocked disgusting reaction) but he needs to stop doing that it's so embarrassing! and he cant say that stuff at school! Also lately he's been telling me "mommy those people are fat" >?
Let me just inform you all that me and the father have joint custody and are on a totally weird schedule, He goes to his dad's one week ( for a week each time) then my house a week ( so we each have him the same amount of time- 2wks each month
I try to talk to him about our 3year old's misbehaving etc. and all his dad says is that he uses time-out, So I have been doing that also and Honestly I am not having much luck with that, and spanking him is so pointless- He will laugh if anything and still continue to do exactly what I am asking him not to do! I try re-phrasing, I try everything.
It's really starting to just completly drain me which is making my time with him far less enjoyable..so then when he goes back to his dad's I feel like I didn't have as good of a time with him as I could have, It makes me feel like i am a bad parent but then as soon as I have him again- I remember why I get so frustrated. I know he's 3 and going through his little rebelious phase but he is doing things on purpose to upset me in any way he can!! Also* I am very good with encouraging his good behavior so there's no reason he should want to be bad over being good. Plz help me