How can I change my appearance? I look mean to people? someone help!?

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I am super outgoing, talkative and crazy when I am with people that I know. If I don't know you, people say that I look mean, and reserved.. How can I change this? I am just shy around some people until I get to know them. How can I change my appearance so when I am shy, I don't come across as a mean person? Hope I didn't confuse you! Thanks so much!
 
Look people that you dont know in the eye and smile. Looking at their body or feet will make it look like you are judging their appearance and not looking at all makes you seem antisocial.

Always remember names in case you end up needing them. If you overhear a persons name said to them remember it. You can say it later, like "excuse me -----."

Dont cross your arms or legs. It is body language that intimidates people and makes them think you are mean. Holding your head up and having your shoulders back looks more open.
 
Look people that you dont know in the eye and smile. Looking at their body or feet will make it look like you are judging their appearance and not looking at all makes you seem antisocial.

Always remember names in case you end up needing them. If you overhear a persons name said to them remember it. You can say it later, like "excuse me -----."

Dont cross your arms or legs. It is body language that intimidates people and makes them think you are mean. Holding your head up and having your shoulders back looks more open.
 
Look people that you dont know in the eye and smile. Looking at their body or feet will make it look like you are judging their appearance and not looking at all makes you seem antisocial.

Always remember names in case you end up needing them. If you overhear a persons name said to them remember it. You can say it later, like "excuse me -----."

Dont cross your arms or legs. It is body language that intimidates people and makes them think you are mean. Holding your head up and having your shoulders back looks more open.
 
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