scipiovshannibal
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Wife and I have been married for seven years. Seems that ever since we got married, the intimacy/sex has gotten less and less frequent. Now, we only have sex once every few months. Our lives complicate the matter further. In short, our schedules are almost completely opposite. I work from 6am-2:30 and am in bed around 9-10. She has her own training business and works anywhere from 12pm-7pm. She finally comes to bed at 2-3am and doesn't get up on weekends until at least 10. We don't have kids, but she is an avid horse rider. We own 4 horses now. Seems all of her extra time is spent with them.
We do spend time going out together, but rarely leads to intimacy. Also, I am concerned that she is gaining weight, but could never tell her that. Lately, it's just not a turn on to even see her change clothes. That just emphasizes the weight thing. I know that seems shallow, but looks do help. Incidentally, how often do other husbands and wives have sex? Is our frequency actually normal?
I'd like some advice here. Please don't give worthless answers or tell me to get some therapy. We probably would if we ever have the money, but don't. Thanks for any help.
Frustrated
We do spend time going out together, but rarely leads to intimacy. Also, I am concerned that she is gaining weight, but could never tell her that. Lately, it's just not a turn on to even see her change clothes. That just emphasizes the weight thing. I know that seems shallow, but looks do help. Incidentally, how often do other husbands and wives have sex? Is our frequency actually normal?
I'd like some advice here. Please don't give worthless answers or tell me to get some therapy. We probably would if we ever have the money, but don't. Thanks for any help.
Frustrated