Vivienne Scott
New member
Due to a previous relationship, I've lost all of my confidence when it comes to sleeping with somebody. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now and we've been sleeping together for the past year. I feel like I don't do anything (which I don't) but I'm afraid of doing something wrong. My boyfriend has told me "You do nothing in bed..." and it makes me feel like crap to know I'm not pleasuring him in the same way he is me. I don't like giving him a b- job and sometimes, he's not clean down there which is a big turn off but I don't know how to tell him to clean it without seeming rude. I just want to know how I can feel confident in myself to try out new things and pleasure him as well (maybe even without having to give him a b- job), this would make our sex life so much better as this confidence thing is a real pain in the neck! Any help would be nice thanks.