so i've been hanging out with this guy for about a month or two now and we've become really good friends, we always hang out, always talk to eachother, etc. and it's established that we both like eachother. things couldn't be more perfect right? wrong. so this week i found out he's had a gf for two weeks or something and when i asked him about it, he said he didn't know how to tell me because he didn't want to ruin what we had going on. it sounds pretty selfish to me, but i guess i could sort of understand where he's coming from. i told him he's gotta figure out what he wants, cause i'm not here to play any games. should i just forget about him or see if he's a true douche bag?