We're seniors next year so college is coming up. I really do love her I'm sure about that. But... we live in Massachusetts and she refuses to move away from her family. She wants to go to college near her family (she wont look further than like 1.5 hours away) and she wants to live near them too.
My family lives in the south and that's where I was planning on going to school before I met her. She has this whole future planned out and always does these things to show her love for me and every time she does it I'm starting to get more and more worried.
I don't want to hurt her.. we still have a year together but she's assuming that I can plan my life around her and will stay up north. She wont budge. Plus I really want a dog and she's allergic and wants too many kids..
Should I talk this over now or break up after next year?
If I talk to her the relationship will be ruined, it will crush her dreams.. she says I'm the most incredible person she's ever met and she can't survive without me..
Help!!
she thinks I'm going to college up north and cried when I looked at colleges in pennsylvania.. I haven't broken the news yet!!
and I would feel terrible if she became like clinically depressed or thought about hurting herself.. she's really emotional
My family lives in the south and that's where I was planning on going to school before I met her. She has this whole future planned out and always does these things to show her love for me and every time she does it I'm starting to get more and more worried.
I don't want to hurt her.. we still have a year together but she's assuming that I can plan my life around her and will stay up north. She wont budge. Plus I really want a dog and she's allergic and wants too many kids..
Should I talk this over now or break up after next year?
If I talk to her the relationship will be ruined, it will crush her dreams.. she says I'm the most incredible person she's ever met and she can't survive without me..
Help!!
she thinks I'm going to college up north and cried when I looked at colleges in pennsylvania.. I haven't broken the news yet!!
and I would feel terrible if she became like clinically depressed or thought about hurting herself.. she's really emotional