Last december we dated non-exclusive for a few weeks, she dropped me and was with another guy, but it didn't work and we started dating again a month ago. I've been leary about getting hurt again and my skepticism bugs her. Friday she randomly pulled back physically and won't have sex anymore because she "needs to protect herself" for various reasons. We hardly messed around from the start and she seldom even wants to kiss me saying "it's how I am". Tonight I lost it saying "I guess you dont need me to spend the night if we aren't phyiscal anymore" and she flew off the handle. I told her I don't want just sex but her behavior is confusing and isn't normal. Was my comment THAT mean or is she being unrealistic?