Well, glad you want to have sex with your wife. That is always a good thing. Hang in there, she is getting close to the age where she will be wanting more sex a lot, so it should get better real soon. If you think about it though, it might be that she doesn't feel like you want to be close to her unless it is to initiate sex. For us women, it's a real and huge problem. We don 't want to feel like a ho. We have to have lots of foreplay, made to feel appreciated, not put down and treated bad. If we feel unappreciated, then it kills the mood.