hey PEEPS SOME WEIRD STUFF IS HAPPEN WITH ONE OF MY BEST FRIEND PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS?

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Ok now my friend willy and i were friend sense 7th grade (we are now in 10th grade) and so everything was good we hung out like everyday. Then one day he just stop talking to me i sent him a message on myspace saying "dude whats going on?" he answered back saying he is in trouble so i said ok i went on with my life for about a week then i tried to message him again saying "you still in trouble" and he never answered back. So almost everyday i messaged him saying "answer back come dont just stop talking to me" and guess what no answer!! and i no he has been on myspace because the last time he was logged in was today and everyday before that and i no he has time to answer me because he is on some girls profile saying "we should hang :)" so then i got pissed i was like what the fuck dude so now i am sending him messages like crazy and still no answer!!!!!!!!!!

PLEASE TELL ME WHATS GOING ON!!!!!!!!!!
 
Welcome to the wonderful world of reality. Seriously, I don't really know why he's doing this but I'm actually hearing a lot more about this type of disrespect lately. But while I can't tell you why he is doing it (a co-worker has done the same thing to me, and we're middle aged adults), I can tell you how to handle it. Move on! Let it go. I realize that sounds harsh but have some pride in yourself. When we start begging others to be our friends it is a major turnoff. More often than not the friendship has simply run its course---that happens all the time.

I will offer one thing more: you're both in 10th grade. While I don't know your social circles in high school, I do know that you're both at an age where friendships can dissipate in a heartbeat because one person wants to fit in with "the popular crowd" and the popular crowd doesn't want the other friend around, so in order to be accepted into the popular clique one person disses the other without ever saying why because they don't want to have to deal with the consequences. It's a bunch of baloney, I know, but it's very common.

Like I said, move on with your life...make new friends...embrace the person that YOU are becoming. People who like us actually want to be with us...let him go.
 
that would be frustrating. and i see why you would get mad.
butttt at the same time, yeah he's talking to other people. but you dont know the reason why he isnt talking to you yet. so i wouldnt go getting pissed yettttt. but thats just me. i'm a girl. so you might think this is totally lame. but maybe.. send him a message just calmly asking him why he isnt talking to you. say that you dont know what you did, and that you would love to fix whatever he is mad about. even if he doesnt respond, atleast you can spill everything out to him, and say what you want to say. and thennnn. if he still doesnt reply.. let it go. just for a little bit. maybe he just needs time to cool off from whatever it is that is making him mad.

yall are best friends. so something is up if he can just drop you like that. try and talk to him calmly and see whats up before you go sending him mad messages and comments.
 
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