Hey guys ....u and your weird ways, what would this mean?

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i was talking to this guy that i work with(and barely know or talk too) and we both got off work at the same time so we talked and he went on and on about his life and struggles and dreams and very intimate and personal feelings about everything and he got kinda emotional too(not about me) and we talked for like 3 hours(well he mostly talked and i listened). And then we left on good terms, but the next day that i saw him, he completely ignored me like he acted like i wasnt even there so i just kinda did the same. Like even when we were serving at close tables i dont think he even looked my way once but i dont know cuz i didnt dare look.WHat the hell was that about!!! what did i do i barely said anything!!!!! These are things that make me lose all hope in the male race.
 
ok he opened up to you and you didn't it kinda shows your not interested in him at all
 
Sounds to me like he is feeling ashamed. He shouldn't. Men do have emotions, even though many don't want to admit it.
 
Believe it or not, he might just be mad at himself for having opened up to you as much as he did... guys aren't supposed to do that. It's not anything you did.
 
He may be embarressed that he poured out his feelings to you and went a little bit overboard. He probably thinks "ohmigod she thinks i'm a huge tool!". Hopefully that isn't the case, try being the aggressor in this situation, by talking to him yourself, or you trying to make eye contact. Dont go making him feel like a fool.

Just my hypothesis, good luck to you!
 
It sounds like he's embarrassed about sharing so much w/ you. He's probably worried that will see him as a p*ssy now that he showed his more sensitive side to you. By ignoring him the next day, you probably made him think that he was right on this.

All that your talk meant was that he needed to talk and felt like you would be a good listener. If you're thinking that he's romantically interested in you b/c he opened up, then that's an unreasonable leap to make, in my opinion.
 
God.. I am him in this situation, he has told you some deep and he is waiting for you to go up to him and talk to him. He is seeing if you care about him.
 
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