Hey guys if you dont like the sex a guy having with you is it rape?

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Leeanne

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So am with my guy a few weeks now yeah he says the nicest things to me. Like am pretty and makes me feel special, i had horrible year just found out i have cancer cells on my womb. So we deceied to sleep together, when we got started i kinda knew he was a live wire. So in middle of morning he wakes me for sex, yeah am up for it. He gets on top he very horny and going at such a fast pace. Am a really shy girl and just cant say be more gentle. So i then say NO,
he just grips me so am completely in his grip. Am shocked i think tell him be more gentle. But then deceide not to cos he so into it, he probably will just carry on in the pace he likes. He lets go of his grip and i just lie sore waiting for it to be over. Yeah i did want sex, just more gentle, even when i said NO, i was hopeing i could say be gentle, but his gripping me just angered me. So sex was so horrible, like is it only rape when you say NO. and want sex to stop completely there and then? I just wanted it slowet but felt if i said it he would go faster cos he seemed turn on. I know it hard cos i consented, but like he did hear my NO, i said it in pain. Guys pls let me know your opion on this, Thanks.
 
Those guys that said it wasnt rape are asśholes!! I cant believe anyone would joke Around with a thing like this!! Sorry hun but what your boyfriend did was considered rape!! Although he did get your consent before going on with it, u did say stop, and when you say stop while having sex and he doesnt then that is considered rape!! If you watched degrassi when paige had exactly the same situation, except the dude wasnt her boyfriend thet you will understand!!
 
the question is, do you feel raped?
whatever the answer is,your boyfriend sounds like a twat,
get rid of him.
sex is meant to be enjoyed by both people and controlled by both people unless stated verbally.
 
no its clearly not rape he had your consent to stick it in the way he does it is up to him he may be rubbish in bed but that aint rape my dear
 
If at any time during the sex you expressed NO or STOP and he didn't.... Then it's a sexual assualt. It's possible the guy didn't understand fully that you were in pain, but NO means NO.
 
if you have intercourse, and previously make clear for him that you didn't want to do it, and knowing that, he insist, it is rape, but will be hard to probe because of the previous night, so he at least deserves to be dumped, for being so selfish and an ass for taking advantage of you in a vulnerable situation
 
If you said no and he carried on then he shouldnt have done but you did agree to start off with, its a difficult one to call.
 
Get rid of him, he shouldn't force you if you don't want to. Any guy should respect when and how you want them to be when they are inside you. Its not their body and it seems to me he is only doing it for one thing. I would call it rape if he forced you and you kept saying no. Stand up for yourself girl, if you don't he will think he can get away with it. Let him know now, I am a shy girl myself when it comes to sex but i would do exactly what i have said if i was in your position.
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well see there is a line between rape and sexual assault. rape is when someone forces sex on u and u don't want it at all. sexual assault is when u want the sex but than gets rough or what not and u ask them to stop or say no than is sexual assault. being hes ur bf it would be sexual assault being that u wanted it in the beginning
 
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