Haha, i guess you read my answer from before. Well i live in NY, so lol i think i should know. It's pretty much just tlking to him like he was there, telling him the things you would do while he was there. Then you get a lil more physical, describe sexual fantasies with each other (It helps if you do some moaning, you would a lil if you masturbated with him). Urge him on, make him have an orgasm, and then tell him how satisfied you are when he's done. If he's nice he'll wait for you to hit that point, it's basically just really dirty talk without the actual physical sex.