He's stopped telling me he loves me and is acting weird?

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Well my bf and I started telling each other "I love you" almost two months ago. From that day forward, we would say it everyday. Just like once a day, but everyday. Last week (week of march 28) he started acting really weird and I'd be the first one to say it ALL last week. Sometimes when I'd say it he wouldn't even reply.
On Tuesday night was the first time he said it to me in a week and a half. He used to say it everyday =( he still tells me he misses me though, etc. Like he used to. But the ily has stopped. (Tuesdays the last time he said it).
On Monday night he was very upset about something that happened with his friends (he wouldn't tell me what), and was saying he was sad & wanted me. He's been very distant & definitely not talking to me much. And I think he knows it, because last night I had to talk to him about his prom so I sent him a text that said "hey I need to talk about something with you" and he replied and said "kimy baby if it's bad I'm not in the mood".

Why is he acting like this? He also did not want to see me last weekend. Well he wanted to, but "couldn't". And the weekends are the only times we can see each other. But he told me last night he wasn't even going to prom. And it's his senior prom. So somethings up with him and everytime I try to talk to him, he shuts me out. Does it sound like he is over me or just has "better" things to worry about?
Kitty- I understand bad DAYS, but this has been going on for over a week
 
Something is going on and you better find out about it as it may affect you. Ask around, I am sure someone will be only too willing to gossip to you about it. If a man doesn't want to see his woman on a time frame that is usually considered THEIRS when the woman is willing, then something better must have come up. What is better than the current woman? A NEW WOMAN. If he wouldn't explain why he couldn't see you as usual, then this is suspicious. I hope you can work it out.
 
Sorry, but it sounds like a little of both. What is probably going on is that he is having some problems outside of your relationship that are causing him to put less interest into your relationship. He also seems a little bit unstable emotionally so I wouldn't take anything he says too seriously since he seems to flip back and forth from "wanting you" to not even wanting to go to prom.
My advice is just to give him some space and see what happens, if he likes you, he'll come running back

Btw, could you answer my question? :)
 
I would ask him what's going on....I would hate to tell you what is really going on. Just talk to him to find out where you stand in your relationship.
 
I would ask him what's going on....I would hate to tell you what is really going on. Just talk to him to find out where you stand in your relationship.
 
I would ask him what's going on....I would hate to tell you what is really going on. Just talk to him to find out where you stand in your relationship.
 
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