He's pressuring me to have sex, what should I do?

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My first instinct is to dump him. Which is probably yours as well but...we're both on our twenties and he's been sexually active since he was a pre-teen. We've been together for 5 years now, he's been patient most of these years but now he's really frustrated. I wanted to wait until I was married. Every one says dump him but I love him and any other guy I talk to brings up sex almost immediately so its like why break up with someone I love that pressuring me versus going out to date a bunch of guys I don't know who are going to pressure me just the same. I don't know what to do.
I did tell him when we first got together that I wanted to wait.
 
what all have you done? maybe try oral sex then tell him you just have to wait until you are married. stick to your guns girl twenties is age enough to marry. if he loves you he will make adjustments to become a man and commit. I think you will regret it if you do. but he just wants to know if you are good in bed or not. so give him something to judge. do a sexy dance for him. oral...etc. play but no full on sex.
 
well if he loves you he would have been put a ring on it just like beyonce says if he like it put a ring on it and if he really wants you then he could wait shit i dnt give a fuck ima make ma dude wait cuz if he really loves you then he would wait thats all men think about is seeeeeeeeeeex so thats good that your making him wait cuz if yall do get married then it will be so much better when yall fuck......
 
you should have told him that before you got together. dont wait till your married. your not going to be happy.
 
If he can't respect your wishes, then you do need to dump him. He doesn't love you or respect you and just because you love him, doesn't mean he is right for you.
 
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