Heaven Tyler
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I just lost my virginity about 2 weeks back, my boyfriend and I have taken it really slow. He waited patiently until I was ready, and has always showed his dedication to me. When I became ready, we decided to try, but it HURT so bad the first time we tried, I couldn't even let him get 1/3 in before telling him to pull out. For practically a month, we have gone bit by bit, each time hurt, but it began to hurt less and less. Finally this week I was able to let him go all the way in (yes I lost it about 2 weeks ago...but I could never take him in entirely until now), but sex doesn't feel good to me. My boyfriend is very experienced and knows what he is doing, we've tried a couple of different positions but sex now, instead of hurting, it just feels weird to me, and very uncomfortable. We do a lot of foreplay and I am attracted to him, as well as trust him a lot...A lot of people say that the reason sex doesn't feel good is because I'm not comfortable. So with this in mind...is the pleasure from sex mainly a mind thing? Because I don't feel what everyone else talks about, I just feel physically uncomfortable when he goes in me...Is this just because I am just getting use to the feeling of having something inside of me? Will this feeling change???