It was his birthday over the weekend and I didn't text or call him because I didn't want to bother him when he said he was busy all weekend... He went out for his birthday with his good friends and never invited me, but that doesn't bother me too much. Can it mean he doesn't want anything to do with me or does he just need time?
I'm 24 and have a guy friend I've known for a while who is also 24. Just recently we told each other we're interested in and attracted to each other. That night we hung out together, had deep conversations, and made out a lot but didn't do anything more. We ended up sleeping in the same bed but just cuddled and he kept kissing my head. The next day we watched a movie, kissed and held hands. The next day after that I went to his house and watched tv and drank wine. We laughed a lot and had such an amazing connection. We couldn't stop kissing each other. One thing lead to another and we had sex but it went so wrong. At first he couldn't put the condom on properly and it took a few minutes for him to get it on, then he couldn't get it in me because he wasn't fully hard, one he did the sex was good and very passionate. After we realized the condom had slipped off and then the mood completely changed. I suggested he take me to get the Plan B pill form the drug store right away and when we were going we were holding hands and hugging, and making a few jokes but it was a litle awkward. The next day he called me and kept the conversation light. We talked for a couple minutes about me taking the pill and how I felt. There were some awkward silences in which he just stopped talking. He then said he wants to see me again but would be busy for the rest of the week and weekend. It is now 2 days after the weekend and I still haven't heard from him. Is he expecting me to call him? Is he embarassed about the situation? Does he disrespect me for having sex so quickly with him? We had such a passionate connection that I haven't had with anyone in years so I thought it was ok to do that. I'm not sure if he is freaked out by me, or the situation, or just feels bad. Should I call him or wait for him to possibly call me?
I'm 24 and have a guy friend I've known for a while who is also 24. Just recently we told each other we're interested in and attracted to each other. That night we hung out together, had deep conversations, and made out a lot but didn't do anything more. We ended up sleeping in the same bed but just cuddled and he kept kissing my head. The next day we watched a movie, kissed and held hands. The next day after that I went to his house and watched tv and drank wine. We laughed a lot and had such an amazing connection. We couldn't stop kissing each other. One thing lead to another and we had sex but it went so wrong. At first he couldn't put the condom on properly and it took a few minutes for him to get it on, then he couldn't get it in me because he wasn't fully hard, one he did the sex was good and very passionate. After we realized the condom had slipped off and then the mood completely changed. I suggested he take me to get the Plan B pill form the drug store right away and when we were going we were holding hands and hugging, and making a few jokes but it was a litle awkward. The next day he called me and kept the conversation light. We talked for a couple minutes about me taking the pill and how I felt. There were some awkward silences in which he just stopped talking. He then said he wants to see me again but would be busy for the rest of the week and weekend. It is now 2 days after the weekend and I still haven't heard from him. Is he expecting me to call him? Is he embarassed about the situation? Does he disrespect me for having sex so quickly with him? We had such a passionate connection that I haven't had with anyone in years so I thought it was ok to do that. I'm not sure if he is freaked out by me, or the situation, or just feels bad. Should I call him or wait for him to possibly call me?