Help with discussing this with my (separated) husband?

yamine

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My husband and I are separated. In our state, there is no legal status of separated. You are either married or divorcing. So, until one of us files for divorce, we only have a gentleman's agreement to go by (which my husband has repeatedly either broken or refused to live by).

On Friday he asked me to file for divorce, and given his physical violence at the time, I'm more than happy to go ahead with that.

Since then he has been goading me. I got an email from him stating that he would be staying away from the house "for the forseeable future". He is staying in the apartment we both previously took turns at.

I did not hear from him for 2 days. This morning he called and was angry and wanted to know "when I can see my children". I said anytime, but asked that he let me know if he would be coming over so I didn't have to see him.

I got an email a few hours later stating, "What are your rules for me to see my children"? I never set any rules. I was completely cooperative with him up until Friday morning when he flipped for whatever reason.

What is his deal and how to I talk to this guy to get him to stop acting like I'm some type of witch.

Thanks.
 
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