Help with coping with sexual desires at 15?

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babeguhh

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I think the question pretty much says it all. However, ever since I have turned 15 (I will be 16 soon) the desire has just gotten stronger. And it really has not helped that I have been talking back and forth with a boy I have developed feelings for. And now I begin to day dream of what we would be like together. And I know I can't have sex until I'm married, I was just wondering if there is a way to cope with the feelings, btw: please don't suggest masturbating because that really is not an option. Thanks for any help!
 
Find something to keep your mind off it is really the only way. You could try exercising to get rid of the pent up energy, take up a hobby, hang out with friends, and much more. it's never easy but i applaud you for wanting to save it for someone special.
 
Theres kinda nothing you can do if you don't want to masturbate? Think of something gross when you have sexual desires about this guy... BTW you don't have to have sex after marriage unless that's your choice. I lost my virginity at 16 and pretty sure im not going to hell ! NOT SAYING SEX AFTER MARRIAGE IS WRONG THOUGH :)
 
girl im in the same boat im 13 and having "sexual desires" bad and not even toward a certain guy i just wanna f**k >.< so does this mean "sexual desires" get worse as you get older D: well my way of coping with this is masturbation which actually keeps you away from sex and it feels awesome!!
 
Find something to keep you busy. I was going to suggest masturbating but I guess you don't want to do that. But you should just try it it helps(:
 
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