...contradicting and anger? so im 17 and a guy and i guess im prob like alot of 17 year olds but i really need help with things. im very arguementive with my grandma (thats who i have lived with since birth) and with my girlfriend (weve been together for 1 year 9 months) which is basically the only ppl im ever around. im never around my friends much bc i live on 20 acres and its alot of work to keep up, since my grandma cant really do it. but sometimes when im with my friends i even argue with them.
shes really not that mean, she is strict with things and very old fashioned and can be mean sometimes, but shes under alot of stress, but she really is good to me. im an only child. i use to have a brother but he passed away 4 years ago and my dad did right before i was born, my mother isnt around.
im always argueing with someone about something stupid 99 percent of the time. and of course im usually in the wrong. and i know they say just think before you speak but thats alot easier said than done. sometimes i argue with my mom and say mean things to her. or my girlfriend. i know for a fact we love each other but sometimes ill argue with her and get so mad and say things like do you even want to be together. and i feel so bad for that bc she doesnt deserve that and always gets really upset. she is very sensative. its been going on for a while now and i want it to end or change dramatically
i have a problem with not thinking before i act and i dont know how to control it. i always get a lot of anger and can say some mean hurtful or disrespectful things to them sometimes. and i almost always have to get the last word in with things.
i really want to help this. and change it and make it better. i know only i can do it. but there has got to be something to help it out a little better bc i have been telling my girl im going to work on things for like a year almost.
and my grandma is getting really tired of this stuff.
is it just bc im a teenager.
help please. i do try and i notice improvements sometimes. but something bad just ends up happening again at least. its little things daily and something big once a wekk or every other week
shes really not that mean, she is strict with things and very old fashioned and can be mean sometimes, but shes under alot of stress, but she really is good to me. im an only child. i use to have a brother but he passed away 4 years ago and my dad did right before i was born, my mother isnt around.
im always argueing with someone about something stupid 99 percent of the time. and of course im usually in the wrong. and i know they say just think before you speak but thats alot easier said than done. sometimes i argue with my mom and say mean things to her. or my girlfriend. i know for a fact we love each other but sometimes ill argue with her and get so mad and say things like do you even want to be together. and i feel so bad for that bc she doesnt deserve that and always gets really upset. she is very sensative. its been going on for a while now and i want it to end or change dramatically
i have a problem with not thinking before i act and i dont know how to control it. i always get a lot of anger and can say some mean hurtful or disrespectful things to them sometimes. and i almost always have to get the last word in with things.
i really want to help this. and change it and make it better. i know only i can do it. but there has got to be something to help it out a little better bc i have been telling my girl im going to work on things for like a year almost.
and my grandma is getting really tired of this stuff.
is it just bc im a teenager.
help please. i do try and i notice improvements sometimes. but something bad just ends up happening again at least. its little things daily and something big once a wekk or every other week