Minisinoo Z
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I'd like thoughts on the following synastric links. It looks really strong to me, but this relationship is going NOWHERE, and I'm not sure why. My interest in him is much stronger than his in me (to the point that he said to a mutual friend he'd never thought of me romantically, although we've been good friends almost 3 years). That's why I'm looking at synastry, not composite. I'm trying to see how my effect on him is so different. I should add, I don't accept anything over about 4 degrees, and focus on under 3 unless it involves a light (Sun/Moon) or cardinal point (Asc/IC/Des/MC).
Easy Aspects:
Mutual Sun/Venus sextiles of just over 2 degrees or 1.5 degrees
(my) Sun trine (his) Jupiter 1.5 degrees
(his) Venus trine (my) Mars 1.75 degrees
Mercury sextile Mercury 1.5 degrees
(his) Mercury sextile (my) Pluto 1.5 degrees
(his) Mercury sextile (my) Uranus 1.5 degrees
(my) Venus trine (his) Chiron 2 degrees
(my) Sun conjunct (his) Pluto 3+ degrees
(my) Eros conjunct (his) Pluto 2 degrees
(his) Asc conjunct (my) Neptune 3.5 degrees
Moons conjunct 3.5 degrees
(my) N.node conjunct (his) S.node 3 degrees [wide for nodes, I know, but mutual reception]
(my) Psyche conjunct (his) Jupiter by less than a degree
(my) Juno conjunct (his) Venus by 2 degrees
My ASC conjunct his IC at less than 1 degree (= My MC conjunct his Desc at same)
My Jupiter is in his 7th house conjunct his Part of Fortune
His Sun/Uranus conjunction (as is his Mercury) is in my 8th house
Fricative aspects:
Mars square Mars 2.5 degrees
Mars opposition Jupiter 3 degrees
Mutual Venus square Asc 2 or 3 degrees
(my) Sun square (his) Saturn 3+ degrees
Of dubious impact: (my) Saturn on his IC (but from/in his 3rd house) ... 1+ degree
(I can give more planetary placements in each other's houses, but tried to focus on key ones. His Vertex, btw, is in my 4th house, but mine is in his 9th house. Both our Venuses are in each other's 9th house. Both our Venuses are in Fire (mine Leo, his Sagi), and our Sun and Moon signs are the same (Libra and Aries, respectively). Our rising signs are both water (mine Pisces, his Scorpio).
Can anyone elaborate on why I am romantically drawn to him but he seems oblivious? I might point to his Sun in my 8th house and his Pluto conj. my Sun .... but I would still think, with all the other good aspects, he'd be feeling some pretty strong affective attraction (even if not romantic). There are just SO many positive aspects to relatively few really negative ones (the worst 2 are the Sun-Saturn square and the Mars-Mars square, although at least the latter can yield sexual energy ... but doesn't seem to here).
I'm baffled!
Easy Aspects:
Mutual Sun/Venus sextiles of just over 2 degrees or 1.5 degrees
(my) Sun trine (his) Jupiter 1.5 degrees
(his) Venus trine (my) Mars 1.75 degrees
Mercury sextile Mercury 1.5 degrees
(his) Mercury sextile (my) Pluto 1.5 degrees
(his) Mercury sextile (my) Uranus 1.5 degrees
(my) Venus trine (his) Chiron 2 degrees
(my) Sun conjunct (his) Pluto 3+ degrees
(my) Eros conjunct (his) Pluto 2 degrees
(his) Asc conjunct (my) Neptune 3.5 degrees
Moons conjunct 3.5 degrees
(my) N.node conjunct (his) S.node 3 degrees [wide for nodes, I know, but mutual reception]
(my) Psyche conjunct (his) Jupiter by less than a degree
(my) Juno conjunct (his) Venus by 2 degrees
My ASC conjunct his IC at less than 1 degree (= My MC conjunct his Desc at same)
My Jupiter is in his 7th house conjunct his Part of Fortune
His Sun/Uranus conjunction (as is his Mercury) is in my 8th house
Fricative aspects:
Mars square Mars 2.5 degrees
Mars opposition Jupiter 3 degrees
Mutual Venus square Asc 2 or 3 degrees
(my) Sun square (his) Saturn 3+ degrees
Of dubious impact: (my) Saturn on his IC (but from/in his 3rd house) ... 1+ degree
(I can give more planetary placements in each other's houses, but tried to focus on key ones. His Vertex, btw, is in my 4th house, but mine is in his 9th house. Both our Venuses are in each other's 9th house. Both our Venuses are in Fire (mine Leo, his Sagi), and our Sun and Moon signs are the same (Libra and Aries, respectively). Our rising signs are both water (mine Pisces, his Scorpio).
Can anyone elaborate on why I am romantically drawn to him but he seems oblivious? I might point to his Sun in my 8th house and his Pluto conj. my Sun .... but I would still think, with all the other good aspects, he'd be feeling some pretty strong affective attraction (even if not romantic). There are just SO many positive aspects to relatively few really negative ones (the worst 2 are the Sun-Saturn square and the Mars-Mars square, although at least the latter can yield sexual energy ... but doesn't seem to here).
I'm baffled!