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My sisters usually fights with our parents at least once a day over the smallest issues. It is either parent will tell her to clean her room or at least do homework, just something simple like that, but she always yells back like she's offended... Or maybe she would wear one of my cloths and I'd tell her, while she's wearing it, to ask me next time but she then she'd get suddenly angry. Because she gets angry all the time, I don't like to talk to her too much because I don't know what sets her off. Whenever conversations don't go her way, she gets angry. Then it's strange because the next day, she acts nice but five minutes later she acts mean again. But she's usually nice whenever she has no one else to talk to or wants something from me.. and it just really hurts, I guess.
The problem is that I'm not the most outgoing person either, but I don't really act mean towards her unless she snaps again. But I don't yell, I just scold I guess... In a strange way, she frightens me because she's completely unpredictable. And I feel like it's wrong to have a relationship like this because she has plenty of friends and is capable of being nice... but she's just so two-sided...
It's confusing and like, after years of this, I had gone tired of trying to get along with her. Whenever she's nearby, I feel odd... and it's strange because she's always nice to her friends...
And whenever I do something odd, she criticizes me for my decisions, but I never really criticize her unless she brings the subject up to me and force me to state a opinion... *sigh*
Also, maybe I should mention that my parents and I have a good relationship too, and I'm pretty sure she feels jealous because she always mentions "if it's you, they let you do this"... But she also feels like I'm weak or submissive, because she'd usually yell at me for not doing her a favor or say that I listen to our parents too much. And I'm the "good daughter" and she is the "bad daughter" technically...
I don't really like her much, but I sort of feel like as the older sister, I should try something.
But, what do you guys think is wrong with me or her? Should I do something else because she doesn't really do much on her part... but I don't do much either.. I'm just really tired...
The problem is that I'm not the most outgoing person either, but I don't really act mean towards her unless she snaps again. But I don't yell, I just scold I guess... In a strange way, she frightens me because she's completely unpredictable. And I feel like it's wrong to have a relationship like this because she has plenty of friends and is capable of being nice... but she's just so two-sided...
It's confusing and like, after years of this, I had gone tired of trying to get along with her. Whenever she's nearby, I feel odd... and it's strange because she's always nice to her friends...
And whenever I do something odd, she criticizes me for my decisions, but I never really criticize her unless she brings the subject up to me and force me to state a opinion... *sigh*
Also, maybe I should mention that my parents and I have a good relationship too, and I'm pretty sure she feels jealous because she always mentions "if it's you, they let you do this"... But she also feels like I'm weak or submissive, because she'd usually yell at me for not doing her a favor or say that I listen to our parents too much. And I'm the "good daughter" and she is the "bad daughter" technically...
I don't really like her much, but I sort of feel like as the older sister, I should try something.
But, what do you guys think is wrong with me or her? Should I do something else because she doesn't really do much on her part... but I don't do much either.. I'm just really tired...