HELP!!! MUM AND DAD ARGUING! REALLY BAD!?

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ok so my mum kicked my dad (really hard) cuz my bro got suspended, my dad slapped her head
now there arguing really bad and now my dads packing his bags! im only 13 and im scared i dont wanna them split up what can i do my bros out and my mum blabbing on my dad pissed off messed food up broke chopsticks what shall i do what will happen?! im scared
 
i know what you're going through i just turned 14 n hav been going thru this since i was in 2 grade. D: this will probably work so listen and listen good if it's still going on then start screaming, at the top of your longs, this will really work well if you're a girl. Dont stop screaming! Scream like a monster truck is running you over. Run upstairs or to your bedroom and lock the door! start packing everything you own, all of it. Dont stop screaming it will help the crying i promise. if you're on the first floor write them a letter saying that you're p zizzled (p*ssed) at them. tell them it's their fault your leaving, tell them you're going to a friend or relatives house. it's summer you're fine and tell them you don't have friends who's parents fight it's not fair blah blah blah ect. and jump out the window **ONLY IF YOU'RE ON THE FIRST FLOOR** if you're on the second story leave the note on your bed and leave push them out of your way and freak on them like bella did to her dad in twilight. Go to a friends or relatives house. if your dad or mom hits you yell at them if they really severely hurt you grab the closet phone, hopefully a cell, and run. Or go grab your dad's bags tell them to stop, don't let them see the bags, and if they don't stop and listen to you then grab his bags and toss everything and i mean EVERYTHING all over the front yard. no lie this will buy you some time, i really doubt they'll ground you maybe at first but once you've really talked to them then they'll let you be i promise. Tell them you don't want to talk to them until they're calm and rational and neither will you return until those demands are met. if you need more help email me i know what you're going through. oh and one more thing don't hurt your parents physically you could get in trouble.
 
you need to calm down
firstly, i understand completely what you're going through.
my parents split up when i was 6, and i'm 15 now.
secondly, when your parents have calmed down, try talking to one of them, and ask them what's going to happen.
and even if they talk about divorce now, that usually isn't the outcome.
if you tell them how much all of this means to you, then they might try counselling.
but even if they do end up spliting up, i know it'll be upsetting at first, but you'll get used to it eventually. trust me, you will.
hope everything works out okay, and if you want to e-mail me for advice or anything, you can :)
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hopefully things will die down, your dada may leave for a few hours but will come back when he has calmed and thought about the situation. hope things go well good luck x
 
if a fight ever physical, you should call the police. i remember my parents got in a physical fight and my dad did the same thing but he came back. If your parents ever fight and say mean things to each other they don't really mean it, they're just mad at the moment. Let your dad leave so he can cool off. Trust me he will come back. and remember they aren't fighting because of you, so don't feel bad about it, all couples fight. Also don't get in the middle.
Good luck
 
Relax take a deep breath and think for a second.
My advice would be to ring an aunt or uncle or friend that u feel u can trust and tell them you're scared and ask can u call over until everything calms a bit.
If u don't feel comfortable telling ur parents you're going just leave a note and leave quietly with things u might need and call them later/in the morning to see how things are before going back.

If you don't want to do that then just put ur iPod on to block it out and read or write down how ur feeling to get it all out.
Try to focus on something else and remember to breathe properly and calm down.

Good luck
Sorry this is happening =,S
 
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