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binh

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Yeah. Heres how it breaks down. My parents wont let me date. Ever. Or until after college. Wrap your mind around that. And theres this girl i like. See. And since i cant do anything about it, im stuck. It sucks to be me.

And. Uhh. I cant do anything about it because i dont want anyone to know. My parents cant know because I'm not sure how they will react. And I cant take that risk. Therefore, nobody can know, because whenever someone finds out. Theres always a chance that it would get back to my parents. Therefore, i have generated a feeling that i cannot trust anyone with my thoughts. So now, im trapped in my head.

Comments, anyone?
 
I hate to say this, but, grow a spine. There's always a chance that if you walk out your door in the morning that a lunatic will shoot you. Personally, I would date someone and make damn sure that my parents found out about it. When they say about how disrespectful it is to break the rules they set for you (and they always do) tell them about civil disobedience: breaking the law because the law is wrong.
 
1st of all, Why can't you date? Are you mormon or something? If I were you, I'd take the chance. Your parents seem strict as all hell, you don't always have to do everything your parents want you to do dude. Sometime you have to stand up to them. Ask them if you want to keep the family name going, your going to have a girl sooner or later.
 
The thing isnt that they would lecture me, my whole family tree wouldnt think of me the same way again. Im indian, and my family beleives that not marrying another indian equals denying your culture. As soon as i hit 18 though they dont got shit on me. Im hoping that as soon as i get my liscense, i can break their rules, and then become really successful in life after college so i can prove to them how wrong they were in their fundimentalist theology
 
Im not really worried about them lecturing me, but what im worried about is what breaking their rules would say about me to the other people in our small town, since my mom likes to talk shit about me like she has nothing better to do.
 
just go out with them and when your parents find out pertend like its no big deal i did it to my mom and it worked just fine but it depends on your parents :sfork: :slook:
 
kill them, take their money and wealth and screw every chick you find.
OR just do the later without your parents knowing. jk, hmm....i would date anyway, just tell her (if she becomes interested ;-)) that you cant date but you will make an exception for her, she'll be all like "dude....how sweet" (chicks :rolleyes: ) and then dont tell your parents. If they find out, have balls to say "fuck you"
 
ok my opinion on this would be to just hang out with the girl and not call it dating.. jsut go with it hey who knows you might end up spending time with her as a "friend" and find out she is a bitch.. if not and you really like her and she is worth it then she will wait till you can.
 
Well that explans it. They will let you date sooner or later. Your just 15. Your still a baby to them. Just wait a few more years, before you know it you will be out on your own working and driving off hanging out and stuff and then you will be dating.
 
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