help me please. don't judge.?

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kimmie

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hello there... i need help. Please do not judge for i know what i did was wrong. I am 23 weeks pregnant... and im scared my boyfriend is not the father... i cheated on him in june. , on june 10th. and got told i was five weeks pregnant on ``august 12 2009 . i remember having a period after that situation , i remember it being heavy , which was normal for me. .can anybody estimate the day i had sex to get pregnant. my due date is april 7. 2010. and maybe when i had my period as well. thanks to all. please be respectful and know that we all make mistakes. thanks.
 
All anyone can do is estimate. Trust your doctor. And you still may be confused about the dates so the only way to find out 100% who the father is is to have a DNA test done after the baby is born. All anyone can do until then is guess. The Maury show does paternity tests for free, just an FYI.
 
First of all I hate it when people say 'dont judge' a judge can only really say wether or not they believe your or innocent or guilty and should be punished, but when some one admits a crime they condemn themselves so JUDGEING as you call it would not be a proper word in this case...secondly Are you gonna tell him you cheated on him? are you going to tell the guy you cheated with? if not I would wonder why you really would need to know when you got pregnant. you would have got pregnant between the 15th and the 22nd of July
 
you should have an idea of the day u had sex and to calculate when u had ur period based on ur due date u need to know how long ur cycle is. The best way to know who the dad is is to have a dna test when the baby's born. Goodluck. Try using babyzone.com or babycenter.com calculators
 
Around July 4th would have been your last period, you would have gotten pregnant around July 17-21 depending on your cycles. My due date is April 8th so I am going off of what I know of mine. Good luck! And not to be mean or judgmental but we don't all make mistakes like that, it's a choice. Good luck anyway and I hope your boyfriend is the father or you'll have some tough explaining to do.
 
If you were told on Aug. 12th that you were 5 weeks pregnant, how did they know? Ultrasound? Have you had a second trimester scan to measure baby and what date did that give?

If they were correct back on Aug. 12th, then your estimated LMP date would be 5 weeks prior to Aug. 12th, making LMP July 8th. Conception would be roughly 2 weeks after that, around July 22 (give or take a week at most). So having sex in early June would not have been the conception time, not even close for an April 7th due date.
 
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