Help me out guys..

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Jam Zilla

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man, that "remaining friends" thing is gonna be the toughest part. For me, remaining friends is BULLSHIT, but I can't say that your experience may not be better.

All I know is, the sight of her, the thought of her, or anything else your senses can remember can bring about painful memories. That is, if you were as attached to msalyss as I was to my ex. :sad:
 
yeah, being friends sucks, like I drive around and see places we went or something stupid or silly like that and get really depressed. But good luck with being friends, it's kind of working out for me.
 
It would have been useful if you had quoted his signature. This way I would not have to go back to page 1 to check his signature out just to reply to your post. :frown:
 
Surely, outbursts like this doesnt help THIS particular matter does it now? does it make the world turn evenly?...

Even though you are very hurt by your past doesnt need you to take it out on others around you who are down.

A year in a relationship with someone has got to hurt. A year is a long time. So is a lifetime.
I definately know if me and my boyfriend were to break up right now, i would be crushed.

But my point here is. Dont take out your shit to other people. Hes in a tough time right now and im sure you are aswell. Why not help him out without take stuff out on him and help him to help yourself, ya know stratch his back and he'll stratch yours (kind of thing!)

Ive been damaged since i was 6 too. Im surely a messed up 14/15 yr old. But i do help others out.
Im not telling you what to do. Im just giving you some advice.

Maybe he can put UP with it but maybe he just wanted to LET it out, and have some views on it.

Take a step back and breathe and sit back in your chair ;)
 
dude, go out and take up sailing, or water skiiing, or surfing...

some sort of water sport will always cheer you up!! :thumbsup:
 
Who are you talking to?

What about the people who live in the middle of the country and do not have a nice beach to go do water sports to? Does a pool work?
 
well we wouldnt just completly break everything off any way. we have been friends for nearly 10 years... and i dont see her very often as she goes to school 600 miles away from where i go to school.
 
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