My fiance injured his leg really badly about a month ago. He needs to have surgery, but he can't have it until his leg heals up a bit. So for the meantime, he is in a wheelchair. Our wedding is in a few weeks. He CANNOT get out of the wheelchair, it would screw up his leg. But with having planned the wedding for a year, and all of the deposits and travel arrangements we are going to go ahead with the wedding. I don't see any reason to defer really, except I was really looking forward to the first dance. I still want to do it but I don't now how we can. I can't sit in his lap because of his leg and he can't stand even for a few minutes because he can't take any weight through his leg. I am tall and so I don't know how we can dance. Does anyone have any ideas? We still plan on having dancing for our guests and I will be more than happy to sit out the rest of the night by his side, but I really want to keep the first dance, so has anyone seen a wedding where a member was in a wheelchair? What did they do? Did they just hold hands and sway or is there another method?